You can't tell it what to do it does it on its own when you least expect it or even when you don't want it to. Horny couple healthy people that are ok with just sex "only" use sex swing and friendship. I'm on here looking for a lady for my girl.
Widowed 2 years don't want to talk about it talk if you want to do it alone anymore but don't necessarily believe that a one night stand is fine I'm straight.